So, you are now poised to go out there, into the "real world," as they say.
For many of you, this will be a seamless transition, as you have been working out there in that real world while pursuing your degrees.
But for all of you, it may help just a bit if you take just one last lesson, and this one is on me.
Let us reflect on where you are along this road of life.
It will come as no surprise, as Robert Fulghum reminds us in the title of his book, that "All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten."
(Robert Fulghum, All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten: Uncommon Thoughts on Common Things, Fawcett Books, September 1993)
It is no surprise because, indeed, most of life's fundamental lessons are learned quite early, at the feet of our parents, and through the early interactions that we have with our siblings and our friends.
That is why children's books contain so many essential truths, and why their lessons have more recently been extended to advice that can be dispensed to major corporations and to college graduates alike.
Several best sellers have titles such as "Winnie the Pooh on Management," and it is fashionable to quote key passages or phrases from books that many of us first encountered as bedtime reading.
Dr. Seuss is a favorite of mine, and his little volume entitled "Oh, the Places You'll Go!" is, indeed, as appropriate for a five-year-old as it is for this college graduating class!
So let me share a few passages to round out your college career. I quote:
Today is your day.
You're off to Great Places!
You're off and away!
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself
Any direction you choose.
You're on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go.
You'll look up and down streets. Look ‘em over with care.
About some you will say, "I don't choose to go there."
You're too smart to go down any not-so-good street.
Out there things can happen
And frequently do
To people as brainy
And footsy as you.
And when things start to happen,
Don't worry. Don't stew.
Just go right along
You'll start happening too.
THE PLACES YOU'LL GO!
You'll be on your way up!
You'll be seeing great sights!
You'll join the high fliers
Who soar to high heights.
You won't lag behind, because you'll have the speed.
You'll pass the whole gang and you'll soon take the lead.
Wherever you fly, you'll be best of the best.
Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.
Except when you don't.
Because, sometimes, you won't.
I'm sorry to say so
But, sadly, it's true
Can happen to you.
And the chances are, then
That you'll be in a Slump.
You're not in for much fun.
Is not easily done.
You will come to a place where the streets are not marked.
Some windows are lighted. But mostly they're darked.
Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in?
How much can you lose? How much can you win?
And IF you go in, should you turn left or right. . .
Or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite?
Or go around back and sneak in from behind?
Simple it's not, I'm afraid you will find,
For a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.
You can get so confused
That you'll start in to race.
Down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace,
And grind on for miles across weirdish wild space,
Headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.
The Waiting Place. . .
. . .for people just waiting.
Waiting for a train to go
Or a bus to come, or a plane to go
Or the mail to come, or the rain to go
Or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow
Or waiting around for a Yes or a No
Everyone is just waiting.
That's not for you!
Somehow you'll escape.
You'll find the bright places.
Oh, the places you'll go!
There is fun to be done!
There are points to be scored. There are games to be won.
I'm afraid that some times
You'll play lonely games too.
Games you can't win
‘cause you'll play against you.
Whether you like it or not,
Alone will be something
You'll be quite a lot.
But on you will go
Though the weather be foul.
On you will go
Though your enemies prowl.
On you will go.
Onward up many
A frightening creek,
On and on you will hike.
And I know you'll hike far
And face up to your problems
Whatever they are.
You'll get mixed up, of course,
As you already know.
With many strange birds as you go.
So be sure when you step,
Step with care and great tact.
And remember that Life's
A Great Balancing Act.
Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.
And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and ¾ percent guaranteed.)
KID, YOU'LL MOVE MOUNTAINS!
So. . .
You're off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So. . .get on your way!"
(Oh, the Places You'll Go!, by Seuss, Dr. Seuss, Random House Trade, January 1990)
At the inaugural event for The University of Akron's "Last Lecture Series," Dr. Proenza discusses the power of beginnings and the illusory nature of endings.
A number of factors can limit or skew an individual's perspective on the world. Dr. Proenza offers examples and advice on how to seek additional perspectives.
While idealism fuels our dreams and ambitions, unrealistic ideals can be counter productive to effective work. Dr. Proenza discusses some of the pitfalls of unrealistic ideals and how to counter them.
Dr. Proenza urges graduates to live their lives with strategic intent and to be guided by their dreams.
Northeast Ohio has improved its talent dividend of citizens who hold college degrees. Dr. Proenza emphasized the importance of an educated populace and discussed methods to further improve the region's results.
In his last State of The University address as president of The University of Akron, Dr. Luis Proenza reviews the progress and returns on investments made over the past 15 years, and outlines necessary steps during this academic year to maintain this momentum .
Drawing upon his own experiences, Dr. Proenza encourages graduates to continue to seek the magic of learning throughout their careers.
Dr. Proenza advises graduates to no longer identify solely with their majors, but to also regard themselves as critical thinkers, communicators and problem solvers. Doing so, he said, will make the job market a more welcoming place.
In a lighthearted nod to J.K. Rowling's novels, Dr. Proenza offers graduates a final lesson of "A Defense Against the Dark Arts of Derision, Disrespect and Insult!"
If inventor and futurist Ray Kurzweil is correct in his predictions for the near future, "a lifetime of learning" has new meaning for today's graduates.